ReformedEsq

An attorney's reflections on life, law, theology, sports, and other random topics. Enjoy!

Thursday, December 10, 2009

How the Tiger Woods Saga Is An Opportunity to Share Your Faith

There has been much focus in the media since Thanksgiving with Tiger Woods and the stories that continue to come out concerning his affairs with other women. Many have had their opinions about him being a terrible person, that he needs help, that he needs to focus on his family, that he needs to get back out on the golf course, etc.

One thing it is very easy for us to do, even as Christians, is to sit in judgment over Tiger Woods. Especially when there is a pattern of behavior, even we wonder how one could act that way and treat his family in such a manner; or that all the people around him would allow him to "go down that road."

The thing that we forget, however, is that we are no different than Tiger Woods. Yes, I said it. Read it again. We are no different, in that we are sinners that fall short of a God that is infinitely good, just and glorious. Apart from the grace we have in Christ, we too would do such things. The restraining power of the Holy Spirit (if obeyed, of course), is an amazing thing--but it is a function of the new creation that we are in Christ. But even then temptation will continue to beckon us to sin, and we often give into these desires.

So what does this situation have to do with our witness? Well, people are very quick to take a loftier position over someone else when they falter, regardless if they harbor the same types of desires or sins in their own hearts (or even if they are practicing it in their own lives). This is why Jesus in the Gospels extended the law to include thoughts that were sinful. The law only addressed actions; the Gospel addressed actions PLUS our desires and thoughts. So when someone says to you, "Tiger should know better" or "Tiger is an awful person" turn to them and say, "you know, I've struggled with some things in my life." Sure, we're not all adulterers; but men, can you say you've never looked longer than just a simple glance at a woman passing by and taken those thoughts where they lead? When we look down on a murderer, have we ever hated someone so much that we, in passing, would wish to see them harmed or even dead? Have we not all lied to someone at some point or played fast and loose with the truth? Human nature is to ignore that we are at our base a sinful creature but instead to think we are basically good; the populace is therefore shocked at others who act sinfully. However, we are sinful and our souls are black if we were to look at them as God could see them.

Tiger Woods ultimately needs Christ, as we all do. He can surely go into rehab for any addictions that he may have to address behaviors, but at the root of addictions is a need that is not fulfilled. This can ultimately be a blessing for Tiger and his family if it ultimately leads him to Christ. We must pray for him that the grace of Christ would take hold in his heart and the Gospel would take root in his life. He is one of the most powerful and influential people in the world, but he is human and fallen just as the rest of us. But the hope is Christ. Praise be to God!

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Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Saw It On Facebook...



Friend's status: "just saw Manute Bol"

Friend of friend's comment: "Did you climb him?"

HILARIOUS! I could laugh about this one for a while! ha!

(For those who do not know who Manute Bol is, see here. He played in the NBA and at 7 foot 7--that's right, four inches TALLER than Shaquille O'Neal--was one of the tallest players ever to play in the NBA. My friend comes in at a shade under 6 feet.)

I just found this image, where he's pictured with Mugsy Bogues, one of the shortest guys to ever play in the NBA.

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Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Mixed Bag at Court Yesterday

Yesterday was an interesting day--I had a court appearance in the morning and one in the afternoon, and neither went how I thought it was going to go.

I had one case yesterday morning about an hour and a half away (which meant I had to get up early to drive and be there), and when I got there, proper service on the case had not been made, so I had to continue the case and drive back with no result.

In the afternoon, I fully expected to dismiss all my cases due to a judge that (in my opinion) was requiring more than the law required as far as documentation, but when I arrived, it was a different judge completely and I got judgment on all of my cases. A blessing, indeed!

I feel mostly recovered from the Super Bowl party the other night, but in some ways I am glad football season is over so that I essentially have six or seven months off from post-season type games that I might have to stay up for (baseball playoffs come around in September and October, when a certain little one will be joining us.... :) ).

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Friday, October 05, 2007

Not Blogging Much...

I haven't been blogging much lately not because I haven't had much to say but because 1) work has been crazy the last week (staying until 7 or 8 PM several nights this week) and 2) I injured my finger playing football at our church's picnic last Sunday.

And no, it's not simply jammed, because I've done that plenty of times. You can usually just pull your finger and it will correct itself. This time (as in the many other times) it was hard to bend without pain. As I've told others, at the worst it's a fractured knuckle and at the least just a pulled tendon. The funny thing is that I can't remember if this is the 2nd or 3rd time I've broken this finger (I have broken one middle finger once and the other one twice).

Most other folks would rush to the emergency room to get it x-rayed, but not me. From experience (four broken toes and four broken fingers), all they do is x-ray it and tell you it's broken, give you a splint and send you on your way...oh, and then there's the bill for $400 (we have a HSA plan, so we pay full price for most services up to a deductible, and I'm NOWHERE close--I haven't been to a doctor in 2 years)! A decent splint can be picked up at your local pharmacy and most over-the-counter stuff will help deal with any pain (of course, if you are in a great deal of pain, see the doctor!).

The only thing the x-ray would do is to help me figure out the exact injury and how long I need to wear the splint (I'd thought about going to the airport and going through their x-ray screen but they might not want me on the conveyer belt with the luggage?). My guess is two to four weeks. I'm hoping toward the lower end, since the men's retreat is coming up a week from now and we're playing captain's choice golf on Saturday (it's my understanding that this is where a team plays but the best shot at each juncture is chosen and all play from that spot--but I could be misunderstanding the concept).

I doubt that I'd have best ball on most shots, though--maybe I'll just bring my putter (and maybe a wedge).

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Friday, June 08, 2007

Spring Sports Wrap

I don't write much about sports here, since the sport I would like to watch the most, that being English Premier Football (soccer to us Americans), isn't on the TV much (or at least the cable channels that I get with my package--I have two games that a random sports channel aired a few weeks ago that I still have not watched off my DVR). As the blog indicates, my favorite team is Liverpool, who unfortunately suffered defeat in Athens, Greece recently at the UEFA (United European Football Association) Cup. They lost 2-1 to AC Milan, a great Italian side. I have great hopes with the new American ownership of the club and the re-signing of a few very key players--I think they might be able to contend for the Premiership next year, which will be exciting.

In related news, I recently purchased (actually pre-ordred) the new Liverpool away jersey and I can't wait for it to arrive! I have two jerseys already and this one by far is the best!

I'm not real sure how the arrival of David Beckham from England will affect the American game and Major League soccer, but I hope it encourages more people to watch it on television. ESPN's Colin Cowherd on his radio show did make a good point yesterday when he said that hockey has gotten marginalized because of the drop in TV viewership--viewership means dollars in the terms of TV deals and corporate sponsors. If ESPN/David Beckham can get more people to watch, then perhaps soccer will become more popular in this country. We'll see.

Last, the Red Sox did pull off a great win yesterday, and Schilling almost had a no-hitter. I was glad they did win yesterday, to keep the lead over the Yankees at 10.5 games. As a Red Sox fan, the Yankees winning 6 out of their last ten has got me BEYOND nervous--I understand that it's better for the Red Sox to have a little skid now, but if that lead gets below ten games, there might be a problem! I'm the kind of person that wants to lead to be 20 games and therefore unreachable!

(and yes, for those wondering, it is June and feels like summer already, but summer does not OFFICIALLY start until June 20th.)

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